As soon as the New Year is over, the young man who wants to bring the other half to see his elders is a little anxious. Someone quietly complained to the Qianjiang Evening News WeChat ‘Xihu Xiaoman Waist’, said Huang Longdong Jin Dajie, this free matchmaker is only willing to introduce two or three times, after which it is not so enthusiastic.
Is that the case?
Golden elder sister smiled: The demand is very high, only use WeChat to fall in love, do not get married for the different color requirements of the floor… These nephews, please ask Aba Mommy to go back , teach well, think about it, come back.
Sister Jin said that it is a denial of self, empathy, understanding of communication, learning to compromise, and deciding whether you can take off.
5 years of running, finally got married
because of the floor color break up
has done more than 20 years of the matchmaker, which makes the most big sister Jin Xiaoxiao The reason for breaking up is probably the following.
The man was born in 1976, real estate, the woman in 1980, the accounting of the listed company, the two met for 5 years, love for two years, seeing the young couple got a marriage certificate, bought a new house, I have to make strides towards a new life. I didn’t expect that there was a scorpion on the corner of this decoration. The fuse is the floor of this new house.
The woman feels that the floor is lighter in color and looks brighter, while the man feels dark and noble and highlights temperament. It was so deadlocked and broke up.
After a while, the two sides went one after another, and then the big sister, Jin Dajie, remembered that they did not recall the two of them. They only thought that these two conditions were equal, they did not think much, and gave Arranged to meet.
In the afternoon, when the two met, they were stupid, and they turned around and were advised to come back by Kim Sister.
‘The feelings of 5 years are not 5 days, and the scattered can be scattered. Since I have met again, and the fate is not exhausted, I will start again from here. ‘In this way, Sister Jin saved this marriage in a word.
2014 National Day holiday, these two finally made a wedding.
‘Although this pair of nephews finally succeeded. But I have to say that, in general, such a small thing is not willing to compromise, it is best to adjust the character, mentality, and then find the object, the success rate will be higher. ‘Golden sister said.
IT men can’t talk with WeChat love
Jin Dajie said: This is not sincere.
Now the trendy male tide girl, the mobile phone does not leave, exchange All rely on WeChat SMS. Jin Dajie has a young IT man here. He doesn’t speak very much. He runs into a primary school teacher and a counselor. He doesn’t know what to say when he is dating.
The young man thought, if you can’t say it, use WeChat, but every time you send it, the girl is always cold.
Sister Kim can be anxious to watch: ‘To be in love with this kind of thing must face-to-face communication, in order to cultivate true feelings. You are so weak on WeChat, not at all sincere. ‘
Golden Sister told the young man that sometimes, face to face, not only need language communication, a look, an action, is to send a message to the other party, telling each other, I am willing to communicate, you are I am very important.
‘I am a person who will get sick if I don’t talk for a day. I have to talk to my husband for two or three hours every day. He just nods and doesn’t have to talk. I feel very happy. ‘Golden sister smiled and said.
Communication compromise, empathy
Kim Sister’s ‘single secrets’ is quite reasonable
In 2014, Golden Sister arranged a total of 1289 pairs, including There are 320 pairs in contact, and dozens of pairs have already obtained the certificate… So if you talk about Kim’s sister, you still have to listen to it: ‘Knowing yourself, changing your position, knowing how to communicate, and learning to compromise are the key to getting rid of the order. ‘
‘Missing, the most important thing is to fit. You are the 35-foot left foot, you must match the right foot of 35 yards, the big one yard, the small one yard, will not work. ‘Golden sister turned over her information book.
If two other people think well, trust is an indispensable part. The best way to build trust is to communicate. Don’t stare at the computer, hold the mouse, hold the phone, and people who want to live together are around, take a little time each day, talk to each other and trouble things, so that the other party can integrate into your life.
Another compromise is that people get along with each other and quarrels are inevitable. ‘Occasionally, the teeth will accidentally bite into the tongue, let alone two people? ‘Golden sister stressed, ‘Everyone is tolerant of each other, as long as one step back, it is a broad sky. ‘
Release date: 2015/1/12 17:18:03
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